This is a user-friendly, comprehensive tool for creating a kink/sexuality list, also known as a yes/no/maybe list. This site is for personal adult use only. All kinks, fetishes, and activities listed are presumed to be understood as fantasy and only practiced through fiction or safe, consensual roleplay between adults. Neither this list, nor the creator of it, condone the practice of abusive or illegal sexual activity in the real world.
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Entirely SubmissiveEntirely Dominant


Only my partner(s) can use these names
Anyone can use these names

I have a penis I have a vulva
I have mixed/ambiguous genitals, either from birth or through a deliberate surgical alteration I prefer not to disclose this

Being the penetrating partner (Top) Being the partner recieving penetration (Bottom)
Being able to pick depending on circumstances (Versatile) To have non-penetrative sex (Side) I prefer not to disclose this

Masculine Men Feminine Men Androgynous Men
Masculine Women Feminine Women Androgynous Women
Masculine NB People Feminine NB People Androgynous NB People
All of the Above/No Particular Preference None of the Above

Penises on Men Vulvas on Men
Penises on Women Vulvas on Women
Penises on NB People Vulvas on NB People
Mixed genitals (E.G. someone who has had bottom surgery to have both a penis and a vulva) All of the Above/No Particular Preference None of the Above
Vanilla

Kissing

A common form of affection.

Hugging

Physical closeness and comfort.

Oral Sex

Sexual activity involving the mouth, commonly referred to as fellatio (performed on a penis) or cunnilingus (performed on a vulva).

Intercourse

Penetrative sex, typically involving a penis and a vagina, but may include other forms.

Manual Stimulation

Using hands or fingers for sexual pleasure.

Mutual Masturbation

Partners stimulating themselves in the presence of each other.

Sensual Massage

Using touch for relaxation and pleasure.

Erotic or Romantic Roleplay

Exploring fantasies through acting out different scenarios.

Light Bondage

Gently restraining a partner with items like scarves or ties.

Sex Toys

Incorporating vibrators, dildos, or other toys for added pleasure.

Lingerie

Special clothing worn to enhance the sexual experience.

Exploring Fantasies

Sharing and acting out sexual fantasies.

Dirty Talk

Verbal communication to enhance arousal.

Watching Porn Together

Sharing and enjoying adult content as a couple.

Showering or Bathing Together

Intimate and sensual activities in a shared space.

Cuddling

Non-sexual physical affection.

Trying New Positions

Experimenting with different sexual positions.

Reading Erotica

Sharing or creating erotic stories together.

Flirting

Playful and teasing behavior to build sexual tension.

Extended Foreplay

Spending extra time on activities that lead up to intercourse.
"Vanilla"/Mainstream Kinks

Title

Description

Bondage and Discipline
[TBA]
Domination and Submission
[TBA]
Sadomasochism
[TBA]
Specific Body Parts
[TBA]
Taboo
[TBA]
Unsanitary Themes
[TBA]
Fetishes
[TBA]
extra container
[TBA]